How do l socialise on social situations as an Autistic?

#Socialization #aspieanswers #autism

As we know for many of us not just autistics will come to a point in their life that they will struggle with socialising and interacting with
their peers by conversation and holding a conversation along with eye contact.

I talked briefly about how I go about socializing with my peers or how I interact with people in forms of communication and so much more. I also gave some advice for this as well.

Thanks for your support and thanks for watching.

Videos that I mentioned in the video to watch for more information:

*How to be a friend to someone who is Autistic?
Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fm-_ahSaU10&index=55&t=0s&list=PLD1nCoeovTZ53B9xfw8vgujCMNTYfKElC

* Aspergers Syndrome & Meltdowns/Sensory Overload/Tantrums & more playlist

Link: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD1nCoeovTZ7dZgDMPm6czbrWLXogBvUK

*Autism/Why Eye Contact is hard for people on the Autism Spectrum

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOVRBPHHnR0&index=157&t=0s&list=PLD1nCoeovTZ53B9xfw8vgujCMNTYfKElC

*Friendship & Socialisation Help Central Playlist series:

Link: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD1nCoeovTZ5FRKGUeYX9bZc7ENxkNhbD

*Autism Females and Masking
Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRgs74MyHvw&t=58s

*Autism & Aspergers Help Central Tips and Advice Playlist:

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Follow your head and not your heart

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In this day and age right now that there has been some misleading information into how we should be following our hearts and that no matter what it has been misconstrued by other means such as motivational posters or other items that
reads to follow your heart and much more. The statement of following our hearts has been now diminished and vanish in thin air. There are recent debates to what we should be doing – do we dare to follow our heart or do we dare to follow our head. You choose.
You’re torn between two options—one risky, the other is safe. Friends and family will likely tell you to “listen to your heart,” as it “knows what’s best for you.” Oprah Winfrey,
too, suggests you follow your emotional inclinations rather than that logic would suggest. But is that really good advice? Think back on the times when you did follow your heart. How did it work out? Maybe there were occasions when you threw caution to the wind and let your emotions take the wheel, and all went well. But it’s likely there are at least as many times when your decision delivered the opposite outcome.

I also spoke about the reasons why we should follow our heart and not our head. Feel free to watch and find out what I think about this.

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How to OVERCOME SHYNESS for Autistics

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Hi all,

This is another autistic related video for you all especially to try and assist people on the spectrum I hope that this helps.

When you’re on the autism spectrum, it can be very difficult to interact with people. You may be confused as to how to start a conversation,
or how to join in one without looking “weird”. You may be worried about people disliking you for something you say or do. Don’t fret!
There are many ways to get rid of your shyness for good. Follow the steps below to learn how to shake your anxiety and feel more comfortable talking to people. There are three methods into overcoming these along with some steps with tips and advice too.

Method 1 – Identifying Your Fears

1 Make a list.
2 Look over your worries.
3 Examine your excuses.
4 Eliminate your excuses.
5 Consider the possibility of Social Anxiety Disorder.

Method 2 – Learning

1 Learn the confusing things.
2 Learn to listen well.
3 Work on open body language.
4 Examine your meltdown and overstimulation cues.
5 Read books and websites about social skills.
6 Go to the autistic community.

Method 3 – Reducing Your Fears

1 Face your fears.
2 Use gradual exposure.
3. Pay close attention to what happens when you try a new worrisome thing.
4 Imagine how you would react to a person who does the thing you are afraid of doing.
5. Try some anxiety-reduction techniques.
6 Give yourself plenty of downtime.
7 Hang out with people whom you can be yourself around.
8 Believe in yourself.

VIDEOS AND PLAYLISTS that was mentioned in this video as follows:

*AUTISM & BODY LANGUAGE

– HOW TO INTERPRET AUTISTIC BODY LANGUAGE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zA68u-cfY3c

-Autism & Aspergers Syndrome/Body Language

*Aspergers Syndrome & Meltdowns/Sensory Overload/Tantrums & more

*Autism & Aspergers Syndrome Help Central/Tips & Advice-
Playlist

http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD1nCoeovTZ53B9xfw8vgujCMNTYfKElC

*HOW TO TALK TO AN AUTISTIC

*ANXIETY DISORDERS PLAYLIST

*AUTISM CHANGE/TRANSITION SERIES PLAYLIST

*#AUTISM & #ASPERGERS/Sarcasm & My Experience

*Autistic Diagnosis in Adults

*P2 Ep6 Overview of Social Anxiety, Shyness & Social Awkwardness

*AUTISM AND MAKING LISTS

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How to Talk to an Autistic Person

Autistic people may appear strange or intimidating to others, but they can be quite fun and charming once you get to know them.
This guide will help explain how to talk to them.

As the prevalence of autism increases, the world is slowly (very slowly) adjusting to fit a changing population. Top companies are hiring people with autism for high-powered jobs, autism awareness is growing, and you can now book an autism-friendly vacation.
But people with autism are still waiting for what seems like
the most obvious adjustment: neurotypicals to stop being afraid to talk to them.

Talking to someone with autism doesn’t require learning a new language or earning a degree. In fact, the rules for having a conversation with a
person with autism are the pretty much the same as having a respectful conversation with anyone, and friendships with people on the autism spectrum can be
unique and refreshing.

Part 1 – Understanding Their Needs

1. Don’t worry about eye contact.

Most autistic people don’t make eye contact often, and may feel uncomfortable if you try to force them to do so.
Autistic people can usually think, listen, and speak better when they don’t need to make eye contact. If not making eye contact feels odd to you, try sitting or walking side by side, or chatting while doing something that involves your eyes (like drawing or crochet).
They may not always look at you when listening to you. Unlike non-autistic people, autistic people don’t always look at the person or thing they are thinking about.
2 Avoid touching them unexpectedly.
Some autistic people are highly sensitive to touch, and even a friendly pat on the back can feel alarming or painful. Feel free to ask the autistic person what their likes and boundaries are. For example, some autistic people are distracted by a hand on their shoulder, while others love bear hugs.
In general, don’t touch an autistic person without their consent, and try not to startle them.
Try asking first: “Would you like a hug?” This gives them the chance to decline if they’re feeling too overwhelmed.
If you’re going to touch an autistic person, let them see your hand coming. This keeps from startling them, and gives them time to pull away or say no.
Autistic people usually can’t handle touch when experiencing sensory overload. Don’t assume that a “yes” from yesterday will guarantee a “yes” today.
Conversely, they might have been unable to process a hug yesterday, but would love a hug today.

3 Find a peaceful area to hang out.
Due to Sensory Processing Disorder, an autistic person might have trouble filtering out ambient noises and sights.
Thus, it’s a good idea to hang out in a quieter place, so they can better focus on the conversation.
Pay attention if they say they can’t handle something. If they say it, they mean it.
Sometimes autistic people have a hard time understanding when they’re overwhelmed. If you notice that they look stressed, take them somewhere less overwhelming.
4. Speak clearly and understandably.
While some autistic people have no barriers to typical conversation, others may not understand everything you say. Be respectful, and be willing to repeat
yourself if they didn’t catch what you said. Here are some difficulties they may face…
Trouble with figurative language. Sarcasm and humor may be confusing to autistic people.
If they act strange or confused, you may need to clarify that you weren’t serious.
Speech processing issues. Regardless of their intelligence or vocabulary, it may take them time to translate sounds into meanings in their heads.
Allow for pauses in the conversation, to give them time to think and react. Avoid rattling off long lists of things—write it down if you expect them to remember all
of it.
Use your normal tone of voice. Avoid talking to adults in baby talk.

5. Be aware of challenges with reading social cues.

Autistic people may not understand facial expressions, body language, hidden implications, or hints—it depends on the individual. It helps to be clear about your thoughts and feelings. If they do something that’s socially tone-deaf, assume ignorance rather than malice.
It’s unlikely that they mean any harm by it.
Since social rules can be harder for autistic people to understand, they may unintentionally say something rude. Assume the best: that they walked away because
they didn’t know how to end a conversation, instead of that they walked away because they hate you.
Check with them. “I noticed that you didn’t respond when I said hi to you in the grocery store yesterday. Were you ignoring me, or did you not notice me?”
They’ll appreciate the clarity.
If they hurt your feelings, say so. This gives them the opportunity to realize that you were upset, and apologize to you.

6. Know that you may witness a meltdown or shutdown.

Meltdowns occur when an autistic person can no longer suppress their pent-up stress, and releases it in a fit of emotion that may resemble a breakdown or tantrum. Shutdowns look like the opposite: the person “shuts down,” becomes passive, and loses the ability to interact.
In both cases, it’s important to give them patience and compassion.
Help them find a quiet, private place so they can calm down. Avoid asking questions, pressuring them to speak, or trying to distract them. Give them time.
Reduce sensory input.
Never grab them without permission or shout at them. Remember, they can’t control it, and they probably feel deeply ashamed about losing control in a public place.
Meltdowns feel terrible.
7. Expect them to stim.

Stimming is a natural autistic behavior that helps them stay calm, think clearly, feel good,express their feelings, and adapt to a challenging world. When your friend stims, act like there’s nothing unusual about it: ignore it and keep talking, or respond to their emotion (e.g. laughing along with them, or asking if they’re doing okay because they look distressed). They will appreciate your acceptance.
If their stimming is interfering with your needs (e.g. their pacing is making you literally feel dizzy), gently ask for them to switch to a different stim.
Never ask them to stop stimming just because it makes you feel embarrassed or awkward.If an autistic person stims around you, consider it a compliment—they trust you enough to be themselves around you.
8 If you aren’t sure about their needs, ask.
It’s okay to ask an autistic person about how you can accommodate their needs. Asking is much better than assuming. People who are labeled as
“high functioning” often are expected to adapt to non-autistic standards (however painful or difficult it might be), while “low functioning”
people might be treated as if they cannot understand anything, let alone their minds or needs. Being asked about their needs is often a relief.
It doesn’t have to be a big deal: all you’re asking is “What can I do to help?”
This will improve the quality of your interactions—a girl who was previously inattentive in a cafeteria might become an active conversation partner in a
quiet, non-distracting cafe.
It may take them time to respond, and they may revise their responses later. Autism is a complex disability, and it’s difficult to think of very important aspect off of the top of their heads.
9 Consider reading about autism.
The internet is full of information from autistic-run organizations and autistic writers (like Cynthia Kim and Amy Sequenzia) who offer insights into the
ways their minds work. Kim’s website has a list of recommended blogs in the sidebar.
Beware groups that exclude autistic people, focus on what “burdens” and “disasters” they are, or portray themselves as anti-autism. These groups are not helpful, and not accurate. Listen to real autistic people.
Some parents and therapists exist who write compassionate, insightful resources. For example, Ariane Zurcher of Emma’s Hope Book and Dr. Jonine Biesman are well regarded among autistic people. These people can also provide good information.

10. Remember that autism is more than a list of deficits and challenges.
It also comes with some significant strengths, that can make autistic people be very good friends. Many autistic people are funny, genuine, loyal, loving, and insightful. Recognize your friend’s individual strengths,
and appreciate them for the person they are. You can acknowledge a disability while still appreciating the person as a worthwhile, likable human being.
11. Try to be understanding.
Every autistic person is different, and their differences may make them seem odd or even rude. It might be because of a disability that they haven’t disclosed, a co-occurring condition, or a lack of understanding of social rules. Most likely, they never intended to be rude, and feel upset and apologetic if they learn that they hurt someone’s feelings.

Part 2 Conversing
1. Don’t wait for the autistic person to start a conversation.
Many autistic people have trouble starting conversations, and might not pick up on the clues that you want to talk to them. If you want to talk to them, just go and do it! Don’t worry if it seems awkward, since most autistic people are used to a little awkwardness anyway.

2 Find some common ground.
Most autistic people have a few topics that they’re particularly passionate about,
and they love to talk about them if they believe you’re interested.

3 Keep your questions polite.
If you have questions about autism, it’s okay to ask, but avoid asking questions such as “Can you fall in love?” or “Do autistic people have bellybuttons too?” since they are demeaning and rude. Don’t ask an autistic person anything that you wouldn’t feel comfortable asking a non-autistic person.
If you aren’t sure if a question is appropriate or not, look it up on the internet. That way, you can save your embarrassment for yourself as you realize that of course autistic people have bellybuttons, and you won’t make anyone uncomfortable by accident.
4 .Set boundaries as needed.

Since autistic people may not always pick up on social cues, you might have to be explicit, rather than dropping hints. Here are several things you can say to compassionately and politely set a boundary: “It’s been nice talking about cats, but I’m a little tired of the subject right now. Could we talk about school or
something else instead, and talk more about cats later?”
“I need to go work on a project now, okay? I’ll see you at dinner.”
“Well, I’d better hurry, so I won’t be late for my meeting. Catch you later!”
“I need some alone time right now.”
5 Listen to them.
Sometimes, people around an autistic person get caught up in therapies and training,
to the point that they forget that the autistic person is a person with thoughts and emotions. Give your friend a chance to be understood.

6. Be direct when you need to finish a conversation (if needed).
If you want to leave or do something else, it’s best to be polite and clear.
Politely get their attention and explain that you have to go.
Autistic people may miss subtle signs that you want to leave. If you’re talking about something that doesn’t interest them, they might not know how to change the subject or let you know that they’d rather go do something else. If they act abrupt or leave unexpectedly, brush it off. They probably didn’t mean any harm by it.

7.Appreciate them for who they are.
It’s too common for organizations and non-autistic people to treat autism like a blight or disease that must be “cured.” As this goes for many other mental health conditions.
Most autistic people just want to be loved, autism and all, and treated like equal human beings. Showing unconditional acceptance means the world to them.

 

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How to communicate to a non-verbal Autistic

How to communicate to a non-verbal autistic

#communication #autistic #non-verbalautistic #aspieanswers

They are the same as ones that do talk yet do have a bit of different needs for themselves. After all, they’re still human too and that they
want to feel included and not excluded from the group and that goes for many other people with different conditions not just Autistics.

Nonverbal autistic people of any age can still understand you,
so when it comes to you talking, talk in an age-appropriate manner for the child and give them extra time to process what you’ve said.
The child can respond by using a form of AAC, such as holding up a card with a picture or a word on it, pointing to something, writing or typing their response, using a button or AAC device, or even using sign language. It’s also important to remember that nonverbal autistics still use body language and that facial expressions, stimming, tensing, and vocalizations (even if they aren’t words) are a form of communication. Here are some tips also in this video to assist you all.

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(COLLAB SPECIAL)#suicideawareness/Messages of #hope from the #SmallYoutubersCommunity [2018]

#suicideawareness #mentalhealth #aspieanswers #message of hope #youmatter

You can watch my full video here: https://youtu.be/NtRqnbR2M5I

WHERE TO GET HELP: If you are worried about you or someone else’s mental health, the best place to get help is your GP or local mental health provider here in NZ. However, if you or someone else is in danger or endangering others, call police immediately on 111. Or if you need to talk to someone else here are some NZ organizations that may help:

• SUICIDE CRISIS HELPLINE: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
• YOUTHLINE: 0800 376 633
• NEED TO TALK? Free call or text 1737 (available 24/7)
• KIDSLINE: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• WHATSUP: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• DEPRESSION HELPLINE: 0800 111 757

Otherwise, if you live in a different country there are some International Organisations/Services that can help:

IF YOU LIVE IN ENGLAND: NHS 111: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans: Telephone 116123 (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN WALES: NHS Direct Wales: Telephone 0845 46 47 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans Wales: Telephone 116 123 (0808 164 0123 Cymraeg) (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN SCOTLAND: NHS 24: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Breathing Space: Telephone 0800 83 85 87

If you live in Northern Ireland: Samaritans: Telephone 116 123 (open 24 hours)

Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 (open 24 hours)

MENTAL HEALTH AMERICA SERVICES

Do you need to talk to someone? If you or someone you know is in crisis, please call 911, go to the nearest emergency room, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to reach a 24-hour crisis center, or text MHA to 741741 at the Crisis Text Line.

You can also call 1-800-985-5990 or text “TalkWithUs” to 66746 at the SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline.
Trained crisis workers will listen to you and direct you to the resources you need.

MENTAL HEALTH AUSTRALIAN SERVICES

beyondblue aims to increase awareness of depression and anxiety and reduce stigma. Call 1300 22 4636, 24 hours / 7 days a week.

Blueheadspace provides mental health and wellbeing support, information and services to young people aged 12 to 25 years and their families. Call 1800 650 890.

Kids Helpline is Australia’s only free 24/7 confidential and private counseling service specifically for children and young people aged 5 to 25. Call 1800 55 1800.

Lifeline provides 24-hour crisis counseling, support groups, and suicide prevention services. Call 13 11 14.

The MindSpot Clinic is a free telephone and online service for people with stress, worry, anxiety, low mood or depression.
They provide online assessment and treatment for anxiety and depression. The MindSpot Clinic does not provide an emergency or instant response service. Call 1800 61 44 34 AEST, 8am-8pm (Mon-Fri), 8am-6pm (Sat).

SANE Australia provides support, training, and education enabling those with a mental illness to lead a better life.
Call 1800 18 7263, 9am-5pm AEST (Mon-Fri).

Suicide Call Back Service provides 24/7 support if you or someone you know is feeling suicidal.
Call 1300 659 467.

Veterans and Veterans Families Counselling Service (VVCS) provides 24/7 free and confidential,
nationwide counseling and support for war and service-related mental health conditions, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD),
anxiety, depression, sleep disturbance, and anger. Call 1800 011 046.

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#mentalhealthawareness/#reasonstolive Part 2-Message of Hope[2018]

#messageofhope #reasonstolive #mentalhealthawareness #aspieanswers

This is the second part to the reason to live from what l shared as a message of hope to others that are struggling or are contemplating on ending their life to stop right now and listen/watch this message.
I hope that this will bring comfort and peace.

MUSIC:

WHERE TO GET HELP: If you are worried about you or someone else’s mental health, the best place to get help is your GP or local mental health provider here in NZ. However, if you or someone else is in danger or endangering others, call police immediately on 111. Or if you need to talk to someone else here are some NZ organizations that may help:

• SUICIDE CRISIS HELPLINE: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
• YOUTHLINE: 0800 376 633
• NEED TO TALK? Free call or text 1737 (available 24/7)
• KIDSLINE: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• WHATSUP: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• DEPRESSION HELPLINE: 0800 111 757

Otherwise, if you live in a different country there are some International Organisations/Services that can help:

IF YOU LIVE IN ENGLAND: NHS 111: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans: Telephone 116123 (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN WALES: NHS Direct Wales: Telephone 0845 46 47 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans Wales: Telephone 116 123 (0808 164 0123 Cymraeg) (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN SCOTLAND: NHS 24: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Breathing Space: Telephone 0800 83 85 87

If you live in Northern Ireland: Samaritans: Telephone 116 123 (open 24 hours)

Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 (open 24 hours)

MENTAL HEALTH AMERICA SERVICES

Do you need to talk to someone? If you or someone you know is in crisis, please call 911, go to the nearest emergency room, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to reach a 24-hour crisis center, or text MHA to 741741 at the Crisis Text Line.

You can also call 1-800-985-5990 or text “TalkWithUs” to 66746 at the SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline.
Trained crisis workers will listen to you and direct you to the resources you need.

MENTAL HEALTH AUSTRALIAN SERVICES

beyondblue aims to increase awareness of depression and anxiety and reduce stigma. Call 1300 22 4636, 24 hours / 7 days a week.

Blueheadspace provides mental health and wellbeing support, information and services to young people aged 12 to 25 years and their families. Call 1800 650 890.

Kids Helpline is Australia’s only free 24/7 confidential and private counseling service specifically for children and young people aged 5 to 25. Call 1800 55 1800.

Lifeline provides 24-hour crisis counseling, support groups, and suicide prevention services. Call 13 11 14.

The MindSpot Clinic is a free telephone and online service for people with stress, worry, anxiety, low mood or depression.
They provide online assessment and treatment for anxiety and depression. The MindSpot Clinic does not provide an emergency or instant response service. Call 1800 61 44 34 AEST, 8am-8pm (Mon-Fri), 8am-6pm (Sat).

SANE Australia provides support, training, and education enabling those with a mental illness to lead a better life.
Call 1800 18 7263, 9am-5pm AEST (Mon-Fri).

Suicide Call Back Service provides 24/7 support if you or someone you know is feeling suicidal.
Call 1300 659 467.

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#reasonstolive part 3 -#suicideawareness #Letterfrommetoyou [2018]

#reasonstolive #letterfrommetoyou #suicideawareness #mentalhealth #aspieanswers
This is a letter to all the ones l know and was a part of my life as a friend until recently they gave up on their lives.

MUSIC: I don’t own the full copyright to this music
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WHERE TO GET HELP: If you are worried about you or someone else’s mental health, the best place to get help is your GP or local mental health provider here in NZ. However, if you or someone else is in danger or endangering others, call police immediately on 111. Or if you need to talk to someone else here are some NZ organizations that may help:

• SUICIDE CRISIS HELPLINE: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
• YOUTHLINE: 0800 376 633
• NEED TO TALK? Free call or text 1737 (available 24/7)
• KIDSLINE: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7)
• WHATSUP: 0800 942 8787 (1pm to 11pm)
• DEPRESSION HELPLINE: 0800 111 757

Otherwise, if you live in a different country there are some International Organisations/Services that can help:

IF YOU LIVE IN ENGLAND: NHS 111: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans: Telephone 116123 (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN WALES: NHS Direct Wales: Telephone 0845 46 47 (open 24 hours)

Samaritans Wales: Telephone 116 123 (0808 164 0123 Cymraeg) (open 24 hours)

IF YOU LIVE IN SCOTLAND: NHS 24: Telephone 111 (open 24 hours)

Breathing Space: Telephone 0800 83 85 87

If you live in Northern Ireland: Samaritans: Telephone 116 123 (open 24 hours)

Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 (open 24 hours)

MENTAL HEALTH AMERICA SERVICES

Do you need to talk to someone? If you or someone you know is in crisis, please call 911, go to the nearest emergency room, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to reach a 24-hour crisis center, or text MHA to 741741 at the Crisis Text Line.

You can also call 1-800-985-5990 or text “TalkWithUs” to 66746 at the SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline.
Trained crisis workers will listen to you and direct you to the resources you need.

MENTAL HEALTH AUSTRALIAN SERVICES

beyondblue aims to increase awareness of depression and anxiety and reduce stigma. Call 1300 22 4636, 24 hours / 7 days a week.

Blueheadspace provides mental health and wellbeing support, information and services to young people aged 12 to 25 years and their families. Call 1800 650 890.

Kids Helpline is Australia’s only free 24/7 confidential and private counseling service specifically for children and young people aged 5 to 25. Call 1800 55 1800.

Lifeline provides 24-hour crisis counseling, support groups, and suicide prevention services. Call 13 11 14.

The MindSpot Clinic is a free telephone and online service for people with stress, worry, anxiety, low mood or depression.
They provide online assessment and treatment for anxiety and depression. The MindSpot Clinic does not provide an emergency or instant response service. Call 1800 61 44 34 AEST, 8am-8pm (Mon-Fri), 8am-6pm (Sat).

SANE Australia provides support, training, and education enabling those with a mental illness to lead a better life.
Call 1800 18 7263, 9am-5pm AEST (Mon-Fri).

Suicide Call Back Service provides 24/7 support if you or someone you know is feeling suicidal.
Call 1300 659 467.

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(Collab & lnterview) Introducing Kay RenRen from Ruann Eats #fibromastosis [2018]

(Collab & lnterview) Introducing Kay RenRen from Ruann Eats #fibromastosis [2018]

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lntroduding Kay Ren Ren from Ruann Eats
You can find her channel here: https://www.youtube.com/Ruanneats

She is talking about Neurofibromatosis today as well as her being a survivor of MPNST.

Neurofibromatosis (NF) is a group of three conditions in which tumors grow in the nervous system.The three types are neurofibromatosis type 1 (NF1), neurofibromatosis type 2 (NF2), and schwannomatosis.

In NF1 symptoms include light brown spots on the skin, freckles in the armpit and groin, small bumps within nerves, and scoliosis. In NF2 there may be hearing loss, cataracts at a young age, balance problems, flesh-colored skin flaps, and muscle wasting. The tumors are generally non-cancerous.

The cause is a genetic mutation in certain genes. In half of the cases these are inherited from a person’s parents while in the rest, they occur during early development.
The tumors involve supporting cells in the nervous system rather than the neurons.In NF1 the tumors are neurofibromas (tumors of the peripheral nerves), while in NF2 and schwannomatosis tumors of Schwann cells are more common.
Diagnosis is typically based on the signs and symptoms and occasionally supported by genetic testing.

References:

https://www.ctf.org.understanding-nfnf1
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurofibromatosis

Link to the video we did together you can find here: Introducing Kay RenRen

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